I get very closed minded sometimes… and this is one of those times… when working with flash remoting with the ColdFusion 7.0.2 updater, there were a lot of good examples on http://www.asfusion.com, I followed them a lot, they were all great… they specified how to create a connection like the following:
//create connection
var connection:mx.remoting.Connection = mx.remoting.NetServices.createGatewayConnection(“http://#cgi.HTTP_HOST#/flashservices/gateway/”);
//declare [...]

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